本帖最后由 Jimi 于 2023-12-20 11:39 编辑
Before starting I want to refence the fantastic thread by brother Ketchup https://www.catchgod.com/thread- ... dsign=774eba3d]here[/url] ; the following are just some points that I want to highlight..
General wolf tips by Jimi...
Firstly always look after yourself.
Look after your body and physical shape ; just as important you must look after your mental state.
Sounds obvious I know but lets think about for a bit.
Physical...
The benefits of doing resistance training will not only give you more physical strength and stamina but also help to improve your mood ; you just have to do it !
I am also referring to hygiene when meeting your date ; make sure your nails are clipped ; you are freshly shaved or neatly trimmed (face and or body) ; make sure you smell nice ; if you can shower at home first , it does not matter that you will be showering again... look in the mirror and ensure that look and smell the best you can...
This dove tails into
Head Space...
When you look good you feel good and now you are getting ready to meet your date. I know it can be quite stress full there is quite a build up ; will I be on time ; what will the girl look like ; will thunder strike ;stress stress and stress... Ohhh NO
Stop over thinking and get yourself relaxed , happy and be confident. Remeber you the wolf and ultimately you decide if the date will happen and to some extent how the date will go.
Just positive and smile ; usually your mood will infucence the attitude of others and compensated dating is no different. And be confident in the knowledge that ultimately you are in charge and you decide if the deal is on ot not...
Online...
Again it is just the obvious but it needs to be stated - just be polite and non-confrontational at all times ; If something does start ; take a step back - have you misinterpret the words or could your words be misinterpreted ?
Always be proud and stand your ground but consider that just someone is polite and non-confrontational does not mean that they are not capable for handling a a rude confrontation should the need arise.
Hence the need to be respectful at all times.
Often things start with poor communication ; and quickly fixed with good communication.
I have found everyone to be quite good here at CatchGod ; and it does help that the Admin is very active too.
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吉米的一般狼技巧...
首先,永远照顾好自己。
照顾你的身体和体形; 同样重要的是,您必须照顾自己的精神状态。
听起来很明显,我知道,但让我们想一下。
身体的...
进行抗阻训练的好处不仅可以增强体力和耐力,还有助于改善情绪; 你只需要这样做!
我还指的是与约会对象见面时的卫生问题; 确保你的指甲被剪掉了; 您刚刚剃须或修剪整齐(面部和/或身体); 确保你闻起来很香; 如果您可以先在家洗澡,那么您再次洗澡也没关系...照照镜子,确保看起来和闻起来都是最好的...
这只鸽子尾巴进入
头部空间...
当你看起来不错时,你会感觉良好,现在你已经准备好迎接你的约会对象了。 我知道压力可能很大,有很多积聚; 我会准时吗? 这个女孩会是什么样子; 会打雷;压力压力压力……哦哦不
停止过度思考,让自己放松、快乐、自信。 记住你是狼,最终你决定约会是否会发生以及在某种程度上约会将如何进行。
只要积极、微笑; 通常你的心情会影响别人的态度,补偿约会也不例外。
并且要相信,最终你是掌控者,你决定交易是否继续......
在线的...
再说一遍,这是显而易见的,但需要说明——始终保持礼貌和非对抗性; 如果某件事确实开始了; 退后一步 - 你是否误解了这些话,或者你的话可能会被误解?
始终保持自豪并坚持自己的立场,但要考虑到,一个人有礼貌且不具有对抗性,并不意味着他们没有能力在需要时处理粗鲁的对抗。
因此,任何时候都需要保持尊重。
事情往往始于沟通不畅; 并通过良好的沟通迅速修复。
我发现 CatchGod 的每个人都非常出色; 管理员也非常活跃,这确实有帮助。
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